Free tool
What to say in a video message
The blank camera is the hardest part. Tell us who it's for and the moment, and we'll give you tailored talking points to speak from. Free and private.
Your talking points
- Open simply: "I wanted you to always have this, so I'm recording it now."
- Tell them what you remember about the day they came into your life.
- Name one thing you have always admired in them, and a specific moment you saw it.
- Share the one piece of advice you hope they carry, said plainly and only once.
- Tell a family story you never want them to forget.
- End by telling them exactly what they mean to you.
- Close the way you would end a hug: short, warm, and certain.
How to use your talking points
These prompts replace a script. Sit somewhere with light on your face, prop your phone at eye level, and speak to each point for a minute or two. Keep the first take, stumbles and all, because that is the version your family will treasure. For a fuller walkthrough, see our guide on what to say when you don't know what to say on camera and the five-prompt framework.
When you're ready, you can record the real thing in minutes and have it delivered when it matters most. See how it works or compare plans.
Frequently asked questions
- What should I say in a video message to a loved one?
- Open with why you're recording, then cover one specific memory, one thing you admire in them, one piece of advice or belief you hope they keep, and end by telling them what they mean to you. This free tool tailors those talking points to who the message is for and the occasion.
- Is this tool free?
- Yes. It's completely free and private. Your talking points are generated in your browser, and nothing is saved unless you ask us to email them to you.
- Do I have to script the whole message?
- No. These are prompts, not a script. Speak naturally to each one and keep the first take. The stumbles and emotion are what families treasure most.
- How long should the video be?
- Two to five minutes is ideal. Short, natural messages get rewatched far more than long, polished ones, and you can record several over time.